Attitude Change

I just noticed a few “moms” unfriended me on Facebook.

I’m not on there often; it’s a rare occurrence I even have the app.

After I noticed this, I noticed something else… my attitude toward this situation changed.

Typically, I would panic. I would wrack my brain until I figured out why on earth she’d unfriend me. I would typically step into insecurities and begin my anxiety of “what did I do wrong? Did I offend her?”.

Today, my only thought I cared to invest into the matter is:

I’m not for everyone; and everyone isn’t for me.

There’s no explanation needed for what she or I do. We weren’t really “friends”; but, even then, people outgrow friends.

The moral to the story: Not everyone is going to like you. Not every person who steps into your life, will stay there.

Let me encourage you, it’s ok. You will be ok. Once you’ve found yourself, you will see what I mean.


Author: Nova

“It is not the the bruises on the body that hurt. It is the wounds of the heart and the scars on the mind.” ― Aisha Mirza

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